I have a Spanish friend, his mother is visiting him these days, I asked him why don't you call your mother here as she is old and there is no one in Spain to look after her too, he said no its my "private" life, I can't share it with any one else ....... I was really shocked at that moment, I said to my self, when he was young and his mother looked after him, she never said to him "son you are disturbing my private life"......when she took him to the hospitals, she never said that too, when she cooked for him, when she washed his cloths, clean his room, take care of him, work hard for him for his studies as in Europe women work too...........she never said those words, I am not saying let your mother or your parents decide your life or let them do what they want to do with it, but I am just saying that at least respect them for their hardships, their efforts....I guess, we know our parents when we become parents too...well he is 38 now, I don't know when...